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You have my sincere condolences. I was torn up when my grandmother on my Mother's side passed away. She went out independent her whole life - didn't need to be put in a nursing home her whole life.
Just a heads up. I am waiting for posts from @Sham, @Reynolds, @Born-On-Board and @Lamb in In Desire. Will be posting on Monday my time so you have a couple of days, and working on the maps on the weekend.
I should finally be able to post this weekend, and I apologize for I have been cursed these last two weeks with 12 straight days of long hours with no time off. As such I've fucked right off of most every plot.