In my circumstance, a huge amount of it used to go into maintaining my husband's drug habit which he was using because the NHS weren't giving adequate painkillers to cover his gallstones, broken toes, liver and kidney problems as he was on severe and very chronic pain and he died earlier this year from an over-dose. I haven't really known what to do with all the extra income and we just sold some dogs so I've helped his mother (really, my mother now) redecorate the living room so she has a project to take her mind off things.
I've found a lot of it has gone on computer parts to salvage the help I got from my friends to build a machine from the remains of my failed build and my husband's machine to keep it going. I've hooked up three 1080p monitors, a decent mechanical keyboard and we were given an iPad at the funeral which has become a planning and drafting tool.
I've just ordered a Razer Nostromo seeing as I'm developing carpel tunnel and I need the desk space to study from all the art-books I've ordered. It'll basically serve as a photoshop controller along with my 3D Space Mouse and Wacom tablet, as well as the iPad as a color control selection driver for Photoshop, Modo and now 3D Coat which is a voxel sculpting app.
I've had a really hard time with the grief getting myself to make, produce or be creative and I'm basically using painkillers and alcohol as an anti-depressant and I'm hitting my daily limit for caffine pretty much every day now just to fight the lethargy.
I've got some nice bedding coming. Brexit means a futon worth $60 is about £200 on amazon right now so I ordered to a close friend who's now sending it on to me and I've saved a huge amount of money. It'll be so nice to finally sleep in something resembling a bed instead of on the floor like I have been for the last two years or so -- though I'm still stuck in a tiny box room cupboard but I did solve the damp problem with an air filter and adding carpeting instead of sleeping on concrete and I'm now very happy with the room.
Lately I'm also very much into makeup now I'm on my medication properly now I can afford it again and getting the required treatments so I can get better. I'm slowly building up a nice collection and I've got some nice wigs for cosplay.
In the future I hope to cosplay with zero irony as one of my characters, Aiesu Kalopsia. I'm cutting weight pretty severely and I'm into running and hiking -- and a good deal of my income (I'd say around 1/6th?) goes into stocking up on meat and protein as well as konjac flour derived zero calorie stuff to cook so I can follow a very severe ketosis diet around 20 grams a day of carbs, zero sugar.
Weight loss is awesome!!
So far on it in the last two months I've lost about three stone so I should be good to cosplay around March time.
Right now I'm debating putting together the bracket assembly and getting one of those texture-printed bodysuits and cosplaying as D.VA. Like three of my girl friends are really pushing me to do it.
A friend sent me a limited edition toy from a line I'm unfamiliar with who now sits guarding my desk. His name is Pipi-chan and he is a very pretty bun!!
I've also got a keto cookbook and I've been learnding!
I've also got some tools and I've been repairing mobile phones for pocket-money here and there where able and now I finally have my own phone too which keeps me company when I go running. The hardest disassembly I've done is this Xperia M2 which a friend of mine
Life is hard, but money makes it easier.