If you were supposed to get an email from the forum but didn't (e.g. to verify your account for registration), email Wes at stararmy@gmail.com or talk to me on Discord for help. Sometimes the server hits our limit of emails we can send per hour.
*grumbles and gripes about my ruined bounce plan* I really do love this site and I will happily help negotiate fair (for us) and friendly (one-sided, again, for us) trade deals!