If you were supposed to get an email from the forum but didn't (e.g. to verify your account for registration), email Wes at stararmy@gmail.com or talk to me on Discord for help. Sometimes the server hits our limit of emails we can send per hour.
Depends. I imagine you could just google it and find a dealer in Nepleslian space, or anywhere else where there are no censors on the distribution of Freespacer culture into the mainstream.