Basically everyone has to do something like this "love" bit now because of fools who take criticism personally. It's happened so often in the past, and Wes usually sides with the creators; perhaps it's so that they don't feel like their tech is "unwanted" or anything of the sort, because people are trying to help get it approved or improve upon it by criticising it. I've said things about it before, but I don't want to demand you go searching for it, so I'll put it all here.
What do you expect? Flowery language? Unoffending euphemisms? That way, criticism would be bleeding with too much uncertainty and over-politeness that it wouldn't be taken seriously. When your ideas are criticized, expect the criticism to be blunt and efficient, and don't take offense, because there was probably no insult intended. You can't expect them to sacrifice their message so that your sensitive mind isn't hurt. In this case, however, Will (and Kotori) is questioning the reality of the technology, because it doesn't seem to make enough sense from an independant IC standpoint, and he's questioning the OOC methods and motives.
Now, on to the real issue. Talking to Will, both of us said the same thing at pretty much the same time in response to the question of the purity of the brainstorming. "If you haven't spoken to [Tiffany] or Doc about it, who are you to question the purity of their 'racial brainstorming?'" Well, because it's on the forum. Will said that you actually missed the point on NASA, but I'll leave that for him to clear up if he wants.
As for "I woulden't want to put a great deal of work, then have my planet raped for all it's worth." and "Who would want to sacrifice blood and toil OOC only to have it utterly wasted IC in a blink of an Aether beam?" That could be called metagaming. Keep IC and OOC seperate. Put what you need into it OOC, and play the race right IC. And don't go complaining when things don't go your way IC. Even if it was autoing that started the complaining, I think I remember there being grief over other legitimate IC actions.
Play your race correctly. If that gets them killed, that's too bad, even if it's not completely your fault. Try again, or leave if you feel like it. If you're really too worried about your planet being "raped" then make your own RP. This is why I suggest that people don't sign up and immediately make new races. Obviously, you've come a bit too far to just drop it, but perhaps you should have become more familiar with Star Army both OOCly and ICly so that you wouldn't have a lot of trouble.
Suggestion: if, by some chance, your race does get destroyed, it really wouldn't be that hard to start over. You could do it simply by saying that the Lorath who were killed weren't actually the original Lorath, but descendants who were put on a ship for colonization of another planet. Something like that.