Hello, Beta. I'm MissingNo, a long-time player and part-time GM.
I would like to answer your questions, except I don't know what your questions are. I see words and phrases with question marks after them, but no actual questions. Except for your last one, of course. In #3, you obviously want us to pick a side...but your reason is oddly-written.
Do you mean...
A: "If you don't pick a side I will kill you"
or
B: "Pick a side or I will kill you"
or
C: "If you don't, pick a side, or I will kill you"
If it is C, I have a question for you: "If I don't do what?"
I'll be happy to answer your questions once you expand on #1 and #2, and choose either A, B, or C for the reason behind #3.
Welcome to the SARP! : )