"I've only observed it, unlike you I have not experienced that situationl. It happened while I was aboard the Bouken. Two different families with the same kind of problems. The children wanting to so some thing radically different than what their parents had planned for them." Sune paused for a moment, "Raia's father wanted her to marry a young man from another ship. But Raia had no desire to marry the man. Her plans were to have her own ship one day, to be a captain like her father. I spoke to her mother after Raia and her father had quite a confrontation. She shared her insights with me."