I can't believe I'm doing this. But I think it applies.
I said:Basically, there's one overarching rule on the SARP that tends to hold true here and in real life: don't start special. BECOME special. If you start small and learn to become a presence, you'll have much more fun with us, and us with you. People here tend to value a character based on how interesting or dynamic the character is on the inside, not the outside.