Bullroarer
Inactive Member
I can say i have done nothing wrong here save for being friendly to everybody and giving everyone a chance, as i would prefer to be given. Some have been kind. Others have been threatening. Most have been indifferent, or watchful to see where i placed my allegiances. It does sadden me that i can't be assessed upon my own words or work. This is most unfortunate of all, as many who come here are younger and are looking for a community to call home, as the real world has plenty of challenges enough. I believe the senior members are often looked to as either role models or wiser heads. My suggestion is as Edto suggested: Be kind. It costs nothing and may pay dividends. To those who do not wish to be kind, or feel slighted without recourse, step away from those who cause you that pain. Do not always feel the need to comment, especially if one can't separate their feelings for the person and their work. I do understand there is a great deal of investment from both sides, investment i don't share as of yet. But i have experienced the darker side of this site. I reported that interaction, though no apology was forthcoming. Fortunately I have a bit thicker skin from living a bit longer than some around here.
So what is your point, Bullroarer? And who are you to speak when you are so new?
My point is if i can see and experience these things, so can others. Especially others who may not be as equipped to handle these situations. Those who are new, either to the site or life. And to those that feel my "newness" discounts my opinions as uninformed, I have seen and experienced plenty of people in my life and some commonalities seem to always be present. Lets be amicable and civil, if nothing else, shall we? Lets set a better example. I can take the high road when slighted. So can others.
So what is your point, Bullroarer? And who are you to speak when you are so new?
My point is if i can see and experience these things, so can others. Especially others who may not be as equipped to handle these situations. Those who are new, either to the site or life. And to those that feel my "newness" discounts my opinions as uninformed, I have seen and experienced plenty of people in my life and some commonalities seem to always be present. Lets be amicable and civil, if nothing else, shall we? Lets set a better example. I can take the high road when slighted. So can others.