I'm not asking you to change how you play your character.
Just, ya know, chill a little?
Because I posted with full intent to obey that order. I didn't intend to go against it at all, in or out of character. I didn't know you'd be this particular in regards to the order of events. If it was such a sticking point, you could have said something constructive out of character, maybe? Just a small "Hey, it'd work better if you changed the order because reasons" or something?
We're here to play this game and have fun. Having someone stomp over and bitch you out isn't fun. Its not "taking things a bit personally" to think "Wow, this takes me completely out of the RP and playing my character."