I wonder if you guys actually realize the repercussions of your petition. If Ame was removed from staff who would replace them? We were understaffed in teh first place. And there are not enough qualified people on the site. What you should be asking for is a shifting of responsibilities. (Not per say that I totally agree with it) If Ame is removed even if me and Jack pass and become full fledged staff, we will still be under staffed and problems will still service. Where as your complaints about Ame have to deal with conflict resolution, but me and Jack seem to be getting instated primarily for that purpose, to be the enforces. So why don't you guys sit back and let things play out a litlte and see if you even have the issue anymore in the future since there will be more people handling the issues and it doesn't all fall on Ame, instead of making rash decisions without thinking of the consequences.
In my opinion, Ame has been given too many chances and failed at all of them. For me this is reaching the point that I feel as though it would be best to demote her and put other people in her place.
You mention that if Ame would be removed, then we would be understaffed. But that's the thing. Ame has been overworked for a long time and it's not effective to just let people, especially in important positions, to overwork themselves. So while it could be as easy as just decreasing the work load on her, it's probably actually in her best interest, even if she would not like to admit it. Furthermore, there's no telling if
all the reasons people are unhappy with her can be resolved by simply improving her conditions while keeping her in a staff position. There is a certain stubbornness where she's involved and I don't think I'm the only one who's noticed. Especially note how I say
stubbornness, not
solidity.
I commend you for bringing this up, though. Its a consequence thats been tugging at the back of my mind that I hadn't addressed yet. To me, simply preventing her from doing much more harm was more important than ensuring the community gets what it needs, which I can see now is careless.
I don't think this is a very good time to bring this back up considering things where starting to settle a bit. If people leave they leave, As cold as that sounds its just a matter of time. As soon as the thought enters their heads that they will leave/quit/stop they will do it tomorrow or a month from now or even later and look for, Wait for, Or make excuses for that to happen.
I don't want to see anyone leave, Never do. But I don't care for people who will put their foot down and demand something or else they'll leave instead of taking the time to wait and see or find a different route to achieve their goals other than that...
*Edit for clarity cause im already getting DMs about this...*:
Im getting a lot of DMs about this the past week and even the past couple of days. I for one care about personal privacy so I wont share my DMs on the subject (Ive had mine and others shared to me without wanting/needing to know about the subject, Including my own from people who couldn't put two and two together and see my name is the same here and on the discord so don't say it doesn't happen...). And like always ill say the same thing here because my previous statement had a little more edge than I intended; That like always im neutral in all this kind of thing. Im neither for/Against Ame. For/against asteria. For/against the cliques, Or anything that ever happens so please don't message me here or on discord assuming you have a brother in arms to lynch Ame or protect her.
I sit on the fence and say what I say. Im not saying it out of bias for either side of it but as a neutral third party...
This is a logical fallacy. First, Ill point out that many of these people arent saying "IM LEAVING IF I DONT SEE CHANGE!!", theyre instead saying "Im done putting up with this. I cant stand it anymore so Im not going to." Its two very different things. One is a threat and the other is taking care of yourself. If SA is such a negative experience for some that they feel the need not to take part in it, then I think that speaks for itself.
Next, I just want to say that I mean well. I don't mean to point to you and say "HAH!! I got you!". Im just trying to gently steer this debate in the right direction. The fallacy is as follows:
"If I do something people don't enjoy, then it is their responsibility to disassociate with me." It's a difficult one to spot. Because at face value, there's nothing wrong with this statement. But when you start to think about the deeper mechanics behind this, it becomes obvious. It is true that if people don't feel as though they enjoy or feel healthy doing something. They should stop. But the statement also implies that if I act rudely and people isolate me as a result, I'm not responsible for that. And if I am, I have no incentive to change because it's
their responsibility to leave me. This isn't what should be happening. I should be striving to be the best individual I can be for a number of reasons.
This isn't
really any different. If we find ourselves saying "I don't want anything to do with people who are going to stomp their foot down and leave if they don't get what they want.", then we will inevitably find that people we quite enjoyed roleplaying with aren't having fun anymore and leaving as a result. There's a certain line not to be crossed where what others want is ridiculous and too far. But this is a
community, and a
club. So the interests of its members are key. Otherwise there is no community.
Charm has a point. It's really not right to thorw out ultimatums like "If you don't do this then I'll leave." At the point someone starts doing that, then really they should just leave. Community sites are about working together, not about getting your way. Despite what people think, things like this are not a democracy. The majority does not always get their way. Usually what happens is a compromise.
I agree. But doing nothing is not a compromise. And
most of the people who have signed the petition aren't having temper tantrums and exclaiming that they're leaving as a threat. I most definitely DO NOT condone those who do. But if someone doesn't feel well roleplaying in SA, and doesn't feel as though it will get better for them any time soon, I would urge them to leave. Because that's just self care. The problem is if nothing happens, then people
won't stop leaving. To put it bluntly, it's not like we have an infinite supply of roleplayers that will just
happen to enjoy exactly what all of 2-4 people in charge want it to be. There needs to be flexibility and there needs to be compromise.
It's important that we keep in mind that it is more than likely that a large portion of the people who signed that petition are no longer roleplaying on Star Army, including individuals within a large cohort of roleplayers who left the site earlier this year. So while Frost makes the baseless claim that "twenty community members" signed this petition, it is more likely that the number is artificially inflated. If I'm counting this correctly, there are only 11 non-anonymous signatures on that petition, and of those 11, only 5 of those signatures (Lijosu, FrostJaeger, Alex Hart, Dovahnok, The-atheist-devil) are clearly identifiable as presently active members of this community.
To say the least, I would much prefer it if decisions to remove certain members of staff were influenced only by active members of the Star Army community, rather than members who left the site a long time ago.
This is a good point. But it kind of waves away the fact that of those 5 signatures, all 5 of them would be willing to confidentally hold another petition exclusively for
active members. I don't mean to speak for others, but I'm PRETTY SURE that's the case. Any of those 4 other people can come and correct me now if any of them wouldn't.
I'm also fairly certain that the same goal of signatures could be reached if it is the case. But as Alex has stated. It probably isn't. In any case, just because you don't see them on the forums doesn't mean they don't call the site home, or even roleplay in plots you arent familiar with.