Basically, what my weekdays look like is I work, pick up my kid, and go home and it's typically 90-100 minutes before I have to start dinner, which I serve around 6:15 pm. My wife almost never cooks. After dinner she bathes with the kid, or I give the kid a bath and my wife gets a shower. Either way, I basically don't see her after that because she just gets in bed reading in her bathrobe. It is the only free time she gets. That means for that hour or so until Aurelia's bedtime, at 8pm, I am usually watching Aurelia and this is the only time I get to spend with her, though sometimes she watches TV shows while I SARP.
At 8pm I'm helping Aurelia brush teeth, and reading a book to her, and getting a sippy cup, singing, whatever to takes for her to settle down and cuddle with mommy and sleep. If all goes well, maybe I get free time from like 8:25 to 10:30pm, which is 7 hours until I have to get up to get ready for work. This is why all my JPs tend to be 8:30-10pm. I don't really have any schedule flexibility.
At 8pm I'm helping Aurelia brush teeth, and reading a book to her, and getting a sippy cup, singing, whatever to takes for her to settle down and cuddle with mommy and sleep. If all goes well, maybe I get free time from like 8:25 to 10:30pm, which is 7 hours until I have to get up to get ready for work. This is why all my JPs tend to be 8:30-10pm. I don't really have any schedule flexibility.