I don't think anyone tried to shame / guilt-trip Ametheliana into anything. I've personally asked her 3 times, not to post, but why the plot was inactive. No response, I was being ignored. I made it clear in the Hana channel on the Discord forum to make the issue obvious. I tagged her in that channel a day or so later, the response I got was along the lines of this, commenting on my remark of this player's plots are 'starting to slowly lose hope' was met with; "Good. Starting and slowly are not a threat." - My reaction might have been on the harsh side, but doesn't that literally translate to; "They're only feeling uncomfortable, I'm not in danger yet. So I don't care."?
And when I raise my honest concern on the matter, I get shut down on Discord for it.
I apologize, but that doesn't seem all too conductive to the players in this plot. Maybe some of the blame lies here with us, yes. But the refusal to even communicate. The following of deciding that it's not big enough a threat AKA not important enough, then the failed promise of a DM post.
This is not entirely our fault, in conclusion. And JPs take us only so far. I should add the amount of times I've heard that Ametheliana is not a fan of JPs between people if missions are going to the equation as well. I'd like to apologize for being confused by so many mixed messages.
I've been sitting on this post for a bit, but I guess this is about it. If the DM is unwilling to listen and refuses to communicate with their players, or vice versa, there's a serious issue at hand. That about sums it up for me and why I decided to persue another, active plot. Maybe with a GM that does care about my feelings with the plot.