The largest problem with this, Jaina, is really a larger problem than you would think it is. None of us here wish to run you off, at least none have come forward and actually said such, but I could be wrong. This is a very structured forum with established rules and guidelines for how plots and RPs run here. Everything, except what's clearly marked otherwise, is considered to be a canon addition to the running history of the setting and the site as a whole. Hence the approval process and multiple people giving you advice on how to integrate yourself into things here.
If you don't wish to be part of the setting and want to flit through a copy of the setting all to your lonesome, most likely your posts will get moved to the appropriate channel because there isn't going to be anyone that will acknowledge a character that isn't approved for canon. Now I know you didn't join the site to RP by yourself and isolate your character to do her own thing, or at least I hope you didn't as that wouldn't make any sense whatsoever. If that's really your goal, no one else is going to waste their time pushing to do something you don't wish to do.
You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink.
At present, there are really just two options for you. You can bend a little and see what we have to offer... or you can stick to your guns and build your little fort in the corner while everyone ignores you. Either way, the rest of the setting is going to continue on like clockwork with or without you. I would sincerely hope you see things for what they are, and decide is this really right for you - and if so, approach things in a fashion that will get you embraced rather than shunned.