Uh, I agree with Kokuten, Doshii.
Rin's got a running disdain for enlisted so some unfathomable but long running reason (despite her being enlisted too =P ). As far as Rin is ICly concerned, Asher and Kyou were the ones whom suggested they do something with the munitions aloud and thus her scorn as accompaniment to Tom's chiding about how live torpedoes tend to blow up when shot at.
Seriously, no one is thinking bad about you. I think few just took the incident in stride with a 'whoops, yeah, there was that' and then move on. Situationally, just as no one sticks their finger in a working toaster or shove a knife in an electric outlet, your characters probably wouldn't have ICly done that if I had taken the pain to describe through scans that there were indeed volatile live ammo loaded in the launcher and that blowing them up would have catastrophic consequences for the armor team.
If this is anybody's bad, it's mostly mine. I didn't have the torpedo launcher there to be interacted with so much of as scenery. Because I knew details and that it seemed obvious to me, I failed on properly sharing them. That's not your fault at all.
So, I assure you, you don't have to be so self-conscious not to mention there's really no harm done (everyone else but Doshii seems to have taken it rather painlessly) and I kind of sped things up to make up for the 'time wasted' so we really haven't suffered from it.
Can we now just move on in writing the final leg of our plot? I'm sure you'd rather get on to the good story stuff rather than feel bad about a speedbump too. Take it easy man. Go snuggle with K. Have babies. Then come back and RP with us. ^_^;
Seriously, I apologize. I'm sorry this wasn't very fair to you since you had the responsability of calling the decision. I'd like to think I was fair in handling this mishaps. I don't want you to feel bad, but you still seem to. I'm not sure of what else I can do to make you feel better about this either - I just hope you will.